He says 'we are not compatible'...married for the whole of 3years!..then got 'incompatible'?!...i'm really trying to understand...did she mutate or shape shift...i mean i'm not a fan of 'for better for worse' but i agree with it in the context of long suffering...guy meets  girl, chop all the fronting, endure the mood swings,finally gets a drab 'let's see how it goes', meets the parents, kiss the dust(for d yoruba brothers), walk the aisle, says I do... he's got to love her right?...yeah right!...2 years later...'i don't think it's working'...you don't think it's working?! is this a new ambi-pur or a life long commitment?...Guys i'm sorry for bringing it all down on you...blame the real-life subject who happens to be a guy......ok I think i'm more upset because I strongly believe in happily ever afters... hence this fight...Father I really do wish i'd hear a story of 2 people that stuck together..grew old together...i know they're out there..i believe...

A day out of in

so i left d shores of d 'island' yesterday....first in about 2 months...a few changes(and it seemed none was for d better).. standin at d bustop... temperature:above normal degrees...who can think in this heat?!...(Father i want my car)...sitting in an overcrowded bus sitting in d row right behind d driver... in d middle of two well-fed people (who thought it necessary to make themselves very comfortable...at least d 50-something-kg girl sitting between them wouldnt mind...oh...but i did!)...with my feet on an over heated engine....assumed d crouching tiger pose(i love u Jackie Chan) for d whole of 30 minutes...then we were blessed with rain...didnt plan for my first visit to a sauna to be in a bus..but what can we do... Anyway, 3 bikes, 1 mile(or what felt like it) and 1 shuttle later..on my bed...i had to think- how do people go thru that routine every single day...and not even hav a pillow to lay their heads on at night......women selling by d roadside come rain come sun..children running after cars for a living...while trying to avoid those 2-wheeled pests(dat seem to own d roads and the roadsides)...being barked at cause their little hands couldn't find d right change before the traffic moved...15 yr old men who bark their talk(a source of my d migraines that stormed my head)'to protect d area'...how do they do this and still find a reason to smile(though not so often)...But things have to change...dis can't be the average standard of living...people shouldn't live like this...Father what can we do?

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